Sheelah Gardner-Thorpe's Address to the Annual Service

It is very good to be here, particularly today, on this the feast of Our Lady of Lourdes to talk about Lourdes; it is always good to talk about Lourdes, and for anyone who has been on pilgrimage there it is almost impossible not to talk about Lourdes to anyone who is interested.

Everyone here is interested in Lourdes and Our Lady's appearance there, or we would not be here tonight. You will all be familiar with the events that took place there in the middle of the nineteenth century, when Our Lady appeared to Bernadette Soubirous, a poor, sickly, illiterate, but loveable 14 year old, in a grotto in the rocky hillside of the Pyrenees in Southern France. Eighteen times Our Lady came to the Grotto, as a young girl of indescribable and unreproduceable loveliness, and spoke to Bernadette there with such gentle graciousness in the local patois. We don't know all that was said there, but we do know that Our Lady made several requests.

These requests include repentance, which is of course the turning towards God; prayers for sinners; for a church to be built near to the Grotto; and for people to come in procession. The Society of Our Lady of Lourdes aims to do its best to respond to these wishes and to encourage others to do the same.

The reason why it is important to do Our Lady's will is because she is so great, because of the unique position she holds in all our lives and because of the great debt we owe her. It is difficult for us to comprehend her greatness or to realise her unique relationship with all the three persons of The Blessed Trinity. I am grateful for the writings of the French saint, Louis Marie de Monntfort in the early 18th century who is acknowledged to be one of the most important scholars in writings about Our Lady. He suggests that not only was it through the Blessed Virgin Mary that Jesus came into the world, but that it is through her that he must reign in the world. Mary is the treasury or storehouse of riches, in which God has enclosed all that is beautiful, resplendent, rare and precious, even his own Son. She is also God's Treasurer, his channel through which he causes his mercies, his graces and gifts to flow. No heavenly gift is given to us which does not pass through Our Lady's hands.

It is said of St Francis that once, while in a state of ecstasy, he saw an immense ladder reaching to Heaven, with Our Lady standing at the top. He was told that it is by this way that we must all go to Heaven.

God has made her the Queen of heaven and earth and our spiritual mother, as God is our spiritual father. The wonderful descriptions of Our Lady in her litany give us just a glimpse of her greatness.

While Our Lady is certainly an awesomely powerful Queen, she is not at all distant or inaccessible. She is a loving tender mother whose arms stretch out to us to direct us to Jesus, and at whose knee we stand. It was she, in the apparition now known as Our Lady of Guadeloupe, who said to Juan Diego on the hillside at Peyerac in Mexico, "Listen and let it penetrate your heart, my dear little son, do not be troubled or weighed down with grief. Do not fear any illness or vexation, anxiety or pain. Am I not here who am your mother? Are you not under my shadow and protection? Am I not your fountain of life? Is there anything else you need? Are you not in the folds of my mantle, in the crossing of my arms?" Let us be in the folds of Our Lady's mantle, and in the crossing of her arms at Lourdes Where better a place to be? If those of you who have already been on pilgrimage there shut your eyes, you can feel yourself instantly before the Grotto. You will hear the icy melt waters of the river Gave rushing behind you, hear the screaming swifts and swallows as they swoop and weave above you, and see in the Grotto before you, the tunnel in the rock, that dark moist rock of Massabielle, where Our Lady appeared to Bernadette all those years ago. You will see the statue of Our Lady standing in the opening of the tunnel, with roses flowering at her feet, but beautiful though the statue is, it is as nothing compared with the exquisite beauty and charm of Mary herself, and bears little resemblance to Bernadette's Lady.

The Society's pilgrimage there is centred around the daily Mass; Mass in the Grotto, Mass in the basilica above the Grotto (built eventually at Our Lady's request), Mass on the Prairie (the meadow across the river) or in the modern basilicas opposite the Grotto. Our programme of the week includes participating in the daily procession of the Blessed Sacrament and also the evening candlelit procession, adoration of the Blessed Sacrament in the Tent of Adoration on the Prairie, saying the rosary together, bathing in the baths, making the Stations of the Cross and enjoying the pilgrimage picnic in the surrounding countryside, (usually at the Lac de Lourdes or at the Cité St Pierre), with plenty of tea and conversation, fresh air and friendship.

The Lourdes Pilgrimage is not always easy. It can be emotional, tiring and even wet. But it is a place where the sick, the disabled and the old are considered precious, and where to help is a privilege. Our pilgrimage includes everyone, but traditionally concentrates on the sick, and our efforts are focused on their pilgrimage, helping it to be a special experience for them, and through them for the helpers and able bodied, who gain so much from their example and friendship. There is a special atmosphere in Lourdes of friendly and loving help and a strong sense of community family, so much so that it has been described as the church at play. No pilgrim leaves Lourdes untouched by special graces, generously and lovingly given by Our Lady, and which continue to increase and develop long after we have left.

To summarise briefly: The Society of Our Lady of Lourdes venerates Our Lady. It specifically aims to do its best to fulfil her wishes expressed at Lourdes and to encourage others to do the same. The Society is deeply conscious of the importance of Our Lady in our redemption and as loving intermediary between God and his children. In the lovely natural surroundings of Lourdes our pilgrimage is for all, but concentrates primarily on bringing the sick to Lourdes to experience days of joyful attendance at Mass and other ceremonies, amid devoted care by helpers. I am sure that we are helped up a rung or two of St Francis' ladder by Our Lady during our pilgrimage to Lourdes, because this is her wish: that she leads us to her son and therefore to Heaven.

Our Lady gives us so much. I appeal to you on behalf of The Society of Our Lady of Lourdes, to respond to her gifts and her wishes and to give generously of your prayers and your money to help the Society in all its work. The pilgrimage is not cheap, despite all the lengthy negotiations by the volunteers at the office at Mill Hill to bring down costs, and your gifts will be gratefully received and carefully used to help many on their pilgrimage to Lourdes. It is not easy to part with hard earned money, but I beg you to be generous. What may seem a small act can change the world.

The Other Side of the Coin

I discovered quite late in life the satisfaction and fun of being a helper on our pilgrimage and am now completely hooked on it. The experience has been very elevating to say the least and I thought I had learned above all that it is indeed more blessed to give than to receive.

This year, however, I was suddenly and unexpectedly taken ill during the pilgrimage and for the first hour or so feared my number had come up sooner than expected! This proved to be an over reaction, but for two days I became completely dependant upon my fellow helpers for their reassurance and support. This was given without hesitation and I saw Lourdes from a different perspective.

I also learned a little of what it is to be confined to a wheelchair and to accept the loss of freedom of movement. You do, however, sit in comparative ease while someone else supplies the muscle power and makes the decisions about what route to take and what bumpy ground to avoid. You learn too the value of the friendly voice behind you and of the willingness of others to make way before you.

Fortunately for me, I also had the good advice of two of our doctors and their calm assessments set my mind at ease. After a day's rest, I was back on light duties, with all wheelchair pushing strictly forbidden! Instead, I adopted a largely conversational role and chatted at length about my life and theirs and about the small difficulties that arose in Lourdes within the greater joys. My withdrawal from the practical duties of a helper had given me the opportunity of even closer contact with the most important members of our pilgrimage. Their concern for my welfare was a cure in itself and the help I had given was returned tenfold. This time they were looking after me.

My fears of the long return journey were met by my friends of the outward journey. My bags were carried, tickets sorted out and refreshments laid on. These and other acts of kindness during the week bore all the hallmarks of Lourdes and I discovered the other side of the priceless coin it offers us in return for our pilgrimage. We are, I think, made greater by both the giving and the receiving.

Tony Reid

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